Monday, March 26, 2018

Blog Post 3, Group C: Dangers of the Internet by Sam U.


Bad Match is a 2017 psychological thriller filled with a lot unexpected turns and shocking realities for millenials. The film starts off with Harris, a video-gamer with a laid-back corporate job living in a one-bedroom apartment. Harris is a womanizing jerk that loves one night stands and uses dating apps to score his victims. Much like Tinder, he has to swipe right when he’s interested and swipe left when he isn’t. However, no one is safe on this app because he swipes right every time! This film demonstrates the extreme dangers of the internet and online dating. For as much privacy you think websites offer theirs also professional hackers digging for personal information, stealing identities and accessing your cameras or microphones to spy on you. Even if the motives of these hackers are unclear– they are never good.

Harris decides to meet up with Riley after they are a match. He does his research on her to sweep her off of her feet for an easy access pass. When they officially meet, he swears to have the same interest as her and doesn’t even let her order her own drink because he is able to “see” her favorite drink. It’s a cheap move! He sees cranberry vodka and tequila shots with every girl. Surprisingly, this asshole’s move works every time. Riley decides to take Harris back to her place to do the do. Once it is all done, Harris strategically waits for Riley to fall asleep so he can untangle her hands on his body and head for the door. It's best for him to not spend the night in order to avoid any explanations or morning after expectations.  



When Harris is home he likes to go online to play videogames with a much younger kid that goes by the username “Shadowman”. Harris likes to win and while doing it these two insult each other back and fourth. They usually go for the over used “suck my dick” but Shadowman becomes increasingly offended when Harris insinuates he’ll never be able to get laid with an actual breathing woman. Shadowman and his defeated manhood go offline while Harris becomes frustrated because Riley wont stop blowing up his phone. He’s used to getting laid, leaving before the girl awakes and never speaking to them ever again. He is the common fuckboy but Riley just happens to be the game changer because she doesn’t give up easily and will make sure to see Harris again. 



After Harris has had a stressful day at his job and tiered of avoiding Riley at all costs, he decides to pick up her phone call and tell her he can’t go out that night because he isn’t feeling well. Instead, he goes out to the bar with his best friend Chuck and his girlfriend, Lydia. Harris is telling his friends that Riley turned out to be an obsessive psycho but he admits that he screwed up because he’s a slave to his genitals and slept with the same lunatic twice against his better judgment. That’s when the music in the background starts to change and get suspenseful. In the film the viewer can see the backside of a figure with a skirt slowly approach their table. When the woman makes it to the table the viewer then realizes it’s Riley! The first thing Riley says is, “I thought you were sick– who is Lydia?”. She had been standing there for the whole conversation and Lydia made the mistake to check everyone in on Facebook. Riley’s stalking game was on point but that didn’t play in her favor. She gets aggressive with Harris and walks out crying. It is easy for a man to blame their genitals as if they are not one. As if doing so, makes it more acceptable or less shitty even though he's admitting to all the wrong reasons. 



Just when Harris thought he was clear from Riley’s madness he receives a call from her. At first, he’s reluctant on picking up but Chuck convinces him to pick up. After all, that’s the least he can do for her. Riley then proceeds to say that she took some pills but wants him to go see her. Harris is afraid she might’ve overdosed so he makes his way to her apartment where he finds her laying unconscious. The room is red to set the mood of a dangerous event but Riley disrupts this scene by waking up and laughing. It was all a trick to lure Harris back into her trap and in a way get her sweet revenge. However, Harris was not very fond of her prank and reacts by smashing his fist into a mirror behind Riley. She screams and her emotions are reflected in her wide eyed gaze. Harris walks out and tells her to never contact him again.
    

Later that day, Police officers knock at his door and ask to see his computer. According to their records he downloaded over 5 gigs of child pornography onto his laptop. Unaware and afraid, Harris denies these absurd accusations. However, with all the evidence incriminating him, he is taken to jail. He speaks with his lawyer and tells him he is positive that his troubling past with an obsessive one-night stand fueled the whole situation. The lawyer believes this set-up but tells Harris he needs Riley to confess in order to prove his innocence. In addition, the lawyer asks Harris to lay low and not to take measures onto his own hands because it wouldn’t end well in the eyes of a judge. This is when Harris’ situation takes an unexpected spin. He decides to kidnap Riley after putting drugs in her drink. He takes her to a secret place, ties her up to a chair and waits for her to re-gain consciousness. The film set-up is red once again to initiate fear and suspense. He then tells her that as soon as she confesses he will let her go. Riley is afraid but agrees to do whatever he asks as soon as he unties her. She says the video wont look good if she is tied to a chair. After Harris unties her she decides to hit him and nearly kill him in order to buy her some time and find the nearest exit. Once she finds the gates that lead outdoors, she realizes she needs a code to lift the gates. Riley starts to scream for help but he unexpectedly stabs her in the chest. She removes the knife and falls to her knees to die. The viewer gets a mixture of relief and fear until he receives a call from his lawyer. He tells Harris he was right all along– kind of. Riley didn’t do it! But he did get hacked by a 15 year-old boy better known by his online username Shadowman. His mom caught him and made him confess about the whole thing.


I really liked this movie because it explores many dangerous issues going around in today’s tech savvy society. As we progress with innovative applications the idea of meeting people as opposed to getting to know people starts to decrease. Online dating isn’t one-hundred percent safe and you never know who is on the other end of the screen. In addition, cyberbullying is dangerous and harmful. One rude comment can trigger someone to do incriminating acts such as killing themselves or others. According to McAfee, “Only 61% of youth have enabled the privacy settings on their social networking profiles to protect their content, and 52% do not turn off their location or GPS services across apps, leaving their locations visible to strangers. Additionally, 14% have posted their home addresses online – a 27% increase from last year’s results”. More and more people aren’t keeping their lives private anymore. They are intentionally and unintentionally becoming victims to the internet and to an extent we are all guilty of sharing too much on our social medias without thinking twice about it.


Citation:

Ross, E., & Eichorn, K. (2014, June 03). Cyberbullying Triples According to New McAfee "2014 Teens and the Screen study". Retrieved March 27, 2018, from https://www.mcafee.com/us/about/news/2014/q2/20140603-01.aspx






11 comments:

  1. I have not seen this movie but it sounds really interesting. You touched on it in your post, but the fact that the film touches on so many different aspects of technology-driven relationship issues within the movie is really intriguing. Not only do we get the perspective of Harris' when it comes to his hookup with Riley, but from my impression, the movie sort of flips and then follows Riley and her reaction to his actions. From your summary, there are also aspects pertaining to stalking (both real life and online), catfishing (or at least using a pseudonym), the affects of video games, peer pressure, drugs, alcohol, crime, and obviously cyber bullying.

    Jared Islas

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  2. The movie sounds very interesting. While reading the first part of the story I thought Riley was the reason for him to go to jail. I feel sad for Riley that she had to go through all that to get Harris back and lost her life because of false accusation. I agree on the point that you raised on internet being dangerous. The number of internet users have grown world-wide and a lot of people are being victims of cyber-attack. I think we all need to be aware of on what or not to use and keep our self-protected.

    -Weini.W

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  3. Kathleen Paxtor:
    With today everything relying on technology it is quite crazy to realize how much one’s words and profile online can be damaging. For example, on Instagram and Facebook it is so easy to find out the most personal of personal information, nothing is kept secret anymore and that is terrifying. I guess you can choose to put your information out there or not too but still that you can go and find out so much on one person in a matter of seconds should be alarming. Let alone also how you can hide your identity through anonymity.

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  4. I usually don't like to watch scary movies because I find them a little pointless, and I wouldn't want to pay money to get scared, but this movie has a pretty realistic plot. Internet dating can be very dangerous because you truly don't know who is on the other of the phone, and someone can make a fake facebook in just a couple of minutes to lie to also get what they want. I've heard many stories about people meeting someone on tinder and then getting kidnapped or murdered and it can be very scary. I wonder about the ethics behind these apps, are they destroying peoples chances of actually finding love? Though I like to believe most people use these apps for the right reason, if someones profile looks off, you should probably swipe left.

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  5. Having a private life these days is almost impossible to actually keep private. From social media to online dating, it is simply a matter a few minutes before your entire life is exposed. This movie, I feel, is an extreme example of obsession and abuse of technology. While I believe that having a private life is important, I also think that being rigorous with your own standard of privacy is usually unneeded. I believe some information should stay hidden on a piece of paper in a safe, but other more public information doesn't need to be expressly hidden away. Just think before you post, send a message, or send a picture, "Would I mind having everyone see this?", if the answer is no, then do not complete the action.
    -Alan Donoho

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    1. I agree! that's a great question to live by when it comes to posting personal content to your social medias. Like JJ said below, once things are uploaded to the internet they are out there forever. People should definitely filter how much and what exactly they decide to share in order to keep themselves safe. If people can’t decide if things are safe to post or not, social medias offer private mode. This allows them to share content strictly with friends only.

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  6. This movie sounds extremely interesting! I'm currently in a class that is going over internet security, and the main lesson is that you don't have much. Once something is on the internet, it is nearly impossible to get it completely off the internet. This is now cliché because it is said so much, but people don't think about it enough. It may not seem like a big deal to post pictures of food at your favorite restaurant or have where you go to college on your profile, but there are cases where this was enough information for hackers and stalkers to do some serious damage. Like Carter said above, this is a very realistic horror movie. Great post!

    -JJ

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    1. Absolutely! Social media can also put your professional career at risk. Employers are doing background checks and searching through your Facebook profile. What you post online is a reflection of yourself because it’s a virtual window to your personal life. Filtering your content and making certain things private are always great measures to take. These apps are aware of the dangers therefore they are including features such as private mode or a “friends only” tab in your settings.

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  7. Although I’ve never seen that movie, it’s exciting, and I agree with you, technologies nowadays could be dangerous including online dating. Even if you have social media, it’s better to keep your account in private. Even me as myself I do not trust myself doing online dating, I’m the old-fashion way of meeting a date in-person not online. Plus, I can’t stand womanizing jerks. I will never forget my father warn me about meeting someone over the internet because you feel as though you are attending an average person, but by the time you reach someone in-person you’ll end up seeing their true colors. My advice is, don’t let these internet people fool you.

    -Kendra ZeMenye

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  8. I'm also in the group of people who haven't seen this movie, but from what you described It sounds pretty interesting. I think the topic of how the internet should be handled in terms of privacy and legality is a fascinating one. Partially because of how new the internet it but also because of What it is. A global network of almost instantaneous information is entirely unprecedented for the human race and considering that in the grand scheme of things, it's very new. It's almost inevitable that there are gonna be many hiccups on the way to understanding how it should be controlled think the best we can do is translate what we know about legality and safety protocol to this new technological medium (while accounting for it's very interpersonal, non-personal nature in regards to things like dating sites) and dealing with any issues as the arise, and using them to set precedents to deal with similar situations when they arise. Much like the supreme court.

    -Kenneth

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  9. The origin of this issue is the adaptation to technology. Because of online dating is so new, we must develop methods to ensure the safety of subscribers/participants. Haven't seen the movie but, the whole idea of online dating is dangerous and comes with a great deal of uncertainty. Most people know the term catfishing. Catfishing is a term used for falsely representing your appearance to appeal to a particular person. That may go further than just a misrepresentation of appearance; it may also be a misrepresentation of personality. Ultimately, make sure you have a decent feel for the person on the other side of the screen.

    -Rob D

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